Escort Tips for Getting Better at Sex

Let’s be real—sex is something you can always get better at. No one’s born a pro, and even if you think you’ve got it all figured out, there’s always something new to learn. The best part? It’s not about having a huge dick, lasting for hours, or pulling off crazy porn moves. It’s about knowing what actually feels good—for both of you. To help you level up in the bedroom, we got some insider tips from our top escorts!

1. Foreplay. Do. Not. Skip. It.

If you’re the type who jumps straight in like you’re racing to the finish line, we need to have a chat. Most women need proper buildup to really get there, and good foreplay is key. Kissing, touching, teasing—it’s all part of the game.

One of our girls Amy says: “You’d be amazed how many guys just skip foreplay like it’s a waste of time. It’s not! It makes everything better, trust me.”

Slow things down—kiss her neck, whisper something dirty, tease her a little. Make her want it before you give it to her. That’s how you make sex unforgettable.

2. Pay Attention (Seriously!)

Sex isn’t just about what you want. If you wanna be good in bed, you’ve gotta read her. Is she pulling you closer? Moaning louder? That’s a yes. Is she just lying there, silent? Buddy, you might need to switch it up.

Melody says: “Some guys get stuck in their own heads and don’t even realise we’re basically giving them a map. Pay attention and follow the signs!”

And if you’re not sure? Just ask! A simple “Do you like that?” or “Tell me what you want” can make things way hotter.

3. Confidence is Hot. Overconfidence? Not So Much.

Confidence is sexy. Walking into the bedroom like you know you’re about to blow her mind? That’s hot. Acting like you’re a sex god and refusing to take feedback? Not so much.

Amelia says: “The best lovers are confident but also open to learning. If you’re too cocky to listen, you’re just setting yourself up for failure.”

Wanna boost your confidence? Take care of yourself. Hit the gym, dress well, and just own who you are. When you feel good outside the bedroom, it definitely shows inside it.

4. Teasing = Instant Upgrade

You know what’s sexy? Making her wait for it. Instead of diving straight in, take your time. Touch her lightly, kiss her neck, whisper what you’re gonna do to her—later.

Try this:

• Kiss her slowly, then pull away just before she leans in for more.

• Run your fingers over her body, but don’t go straight for the obvious spots.

• Tell her exactly what you want to do—but make her wait for it.

The longer you build it up, the more intense it’ll be when you finally go for it.

5. Keep It Fresh, But Don’t Be Weird About It

Sex should never feel like a boring routine. Try new positions, switch up locations, maybe even throw in a little kink if you’re both into it. Just don’t force it.

Aria says: “There’s a big difference between being adventurous and making someone uncomfortable. Try new things together, but always check in and make sure she’s into it too.”

If you’re curious about something, bring it up casually. “Hey, I read about this thing… wanna try it?” is way better than springing a surprise in the middle of the action.

6. Stamina is Nice, But Not Everything

Yes, lasting longer can help, but trust us—it’s not the only thing that matters. If you finish fast, compensate. Use your hands, your mouth, toys—whatever keeps the pleasure going.

Olivia says: “Some guys are so focused on lasting forever that they forget to actually do things that feel good. I’d rather be with someone who knows what they’re doing than someone who just holds out for hours.”

Bottom line: focus on quality over quantity.

7. Hygiene. It’s Not Optional.

Look, we shouldn’t even have to say this, but here we are. If you wanna be good in bed, step one is not smelling like a gym locker. Trim your nails, brush your teeth, shower, and for the love of everything good, change your damn sheets.

Yasmine says: “A guy who smells amazing and has fresh sheets? Instant turn-on.”

A little effort goes a long way.

8. Talk. Dirty or Otherwise.

If you wanna be great in bed, get comfortable talking about sex. Ask her what she likes, tell her what you like, and don’t be afraid to throw in a little dirty talk while you’re at it.

Worried about saying the wrong thing? Keep it simple: “You feel so good” or “I love the way you move” is a great start. And if something isn’t working, don’t take it personally—just adjust and move on.

Practice Makes Perfect

And hey, if you wanna learn from the best, spending time with an experienced escort can teach you more than any article ever could. Who better to show you the ropes than someone who knows what makes sex amazing?

So, ready to put these tips into action? Browse our gallery of Bournemouth escorts to find an escort to your liking!